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The UX Ego — Non-violent Communication

Many times, I find that User Expe­ri­ence pro­fes­sion­als have to debate and argue over their design deci­sions. They have to take full respon­si­bil­ity for mis­takes or fail­ures, and will do every­thing in their power to jus­tify their actions. Whether they are design­ing an inter­face, a sys­tem, or the tasks for a usabil­ity study, they have to be able to defend why they made all the deci­sions they made.

What is inter­est­ing to me is how this debat­ing per­me­ates into other parts of the job. We find our­selves debat­ing over why we sched­uled a meet­ing, or over what the project plan will be. We are con­stantly in a state of debate, argu­ment, and justification.

I find being in this state exhaust­ing, inef­fec­tive, and inef­fi­cient. It is much like the “design by com­mit­tee” sit­u­a­tion, where there are too many stake­hold­ers involved, and too many opin­ions to man­age. I think a much more pow­er­ful way to approach issues, prob­lems, or deci­sions is to bring under­stand­ing, and an abil­ity to express ideals. Instead of fight­ing over what is the best approach, we really need to under­stand what the ratio­nale is behind each oth­ers’ thoughts. Everyone’s thoughts are valu­able, good, impor­tant, and deserve recog­ni­tion. We may have this inten­tion, but it cer­tainly doesn’t come off this way.

We are all in this together, all fight­ing for the best for the user. We just need to play nicer with each other, encour­age each other, and try to under­stand where each other is com­ing from. How do we do this? Well I think the mes­sage of non-violence might help us take a new perspective:

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