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Beyond your wildest dreams

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The most ful­fill­ing parts of my life have been when things are bet­ter than I could have ever dreamed. Peo­ple always say to chase your dreams, but you can’t chase some­thing you have never imag­ined com­ing true.

The times in life that have been least ful­fill­ing have been when I’m chas­ing other people’s dreams for me — becom­ing a lawyer, designer, var­sity vol­ley­ball player, a nice sweet girl.

The best times in life have been when I’m try­ing out “unpop­u­lar” things — and end up hav­ing fun with them: cross coun­try, musi­cal the­ater, ball­room danc­ing, marathon run­ning, library sci­ence, user expe­ri­ence research, etc.

I’m not a main­stream kind of girl — I know that from being Annie in the musi­cal Annie when I was 8 years old. I really didn’t like being the cen­ter of atten­tion, being the lead role, being what ever girl “thinks” they want to be. I just wanted to be Tessie, or Molly. One of the smaller roles, and kick ass at it.

I can’t tell myself to dream big… I’d rather be open minded… try things I’ve never done before… try things most peo­ple don’t do… and see­ing what comes my way.  Instead of dream­ing big, I tell myself to “try big.” Because if you never try you’ll never know… :)

Do you chase dreams? Do you let dreams chase you? Tell me what you think in the comments!